What golden advice did you learn in your life?

1. People will only treat you well if you are doing good in life.
2. Birds of the same feathers flock together- do not flock with shitty birds.
   
3. Feeling uncomfortable around someone means that you guys do not vibe. Don’t force the relationship.
4. Do not waste your time trying to change someone. They won’t change.
5. Never stick to one thing, thinking that it will 100% work out. Always have a plan B, C, D, and E.
6. No one cares about you more than yourself. So yes, you are overthinking.
7. Your haters are always below you. Don’t bother looking down.
8. Don’t call everyone your friends or you’ll find yourself in a lot of disappointment.
9. People are always jealous or feel some way towards your newfound success. Keep it a secret.
10. Toxic people are not aware they are toxic. That’s why they are toxic. Don’t bother to let them know that they’re toxic and move on to better people.
11. Everyone has preferences. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Don’t let one person mess up your self-esteem because they don’t think you’re good-looking.
12. Looks aren’t everything. Use your brain to figure out ways to maneuver through life. Be smart, efficient, and effective.
13. For girls: Throw away your body, and you’ll find your heart goes missing, too.
14. For boys: Learn what fragile/toxic masculinity is- and learn to be the opposites of it.
15. Do not have kids just because you want to “build an empire.” You can’t build an empire without money and resources.
16. Your career isn’t the final determination of what you do to make money. There are other sources of income you can learn about by doing research.
17. It is OKAY to be greedy. But, understand that there is a consequence for every greed.
18. At the end of the day, no one will understand you more than yourself. Never doubt what you want just because someone doubts you.
19. You’re better than some people, and some people are better than you. Either you’re staying stagnant or continue to better yourself- the choice is all yours.
20. Don’t rush into marriage or you’ll be rushed into a divorce.

Source: Linda Nguyen