Which life life lesson you learn only after you experience it?

1. Good looking faces always attract people. It causes embarrassment most of the times mostly in parties . Realised and avoided parties where alcohol is served.
2. All people don’t go for Dowry . I guess good looks compensate dowry .
   
3. Love is not sex always. Caring and understanding attitude is the secret ingredient of successful marriage.
4. Individuality matters a lot for self esteem. People should know your name , not as a wife of someone.
5. Self independence is absolutely necessary for personal growth. It gives emotional security and respect in the Society.
6. People ask those for help who are in a position to help . I feel happy that I have helped some needy ones in getting jobs.
7. Parents are biased to their children. Even though I am close to them I can feel for others.
8. Friends don’t remain friend if you are more successful than them . Now , even if I introduce myself to some of my school friends they can’t recognise me . It hurts the most.
9. I have regretted for some of my decisions in the initial years of marriage for not understanding the value of money. It took me around four to five years to save money.
10. Relationships are not constant in life . They keep on changing with time . New relationships are formed with new friends with changing times .
11. People take you for granted if you are friendly in nature . I stopped behaving friendly after learning one two lessons .
12. Pain is yours , Happiness you can share with others.You will be at Peace. This is the biggest realisation I am having now

Source :Amatya Meenati